O evening

Hey everyone,

I haven't posted a blog in forever, and I am so sorry for this. I will try to do better with posting blogs. Today, I will tell you all about an amazing new experience I had. My Master and I attend munches every two weeks, where we meet some amazing people. One particular person that we get along with very well invited us to an O evening at his house. The story of O You might know the book or movie called The Story of O. If not, here is a quick overview:

The Story of O is a tale of intense eroticism and submission. A young fashion photographer known as O is taken by her lover René to Château Roissy, where she undergoes rigorous sexual and sadomasochistic training to serve the club's members. Subjected to various acts including whipping, branding, and wearing a bird mask, O eventually leaves Roissy as a marked sex slave. She meets and seduces a model named Jacqueline at René's request and falls under the stricter control of René's step-brother, Sir Stephen. Despite growing feelings for Sir Stephen, O remains devoted to her role, even bringing Jacqueline into the same life of submission. The story culminates in O fully embracing her position as Sir Stephen's property, marked physically and emotionally, and testing his love with a symbolic act of branding.

Now that you know a little bit of the story, let's go back to "What is an O evening exactly?"

Our O Evening

In our O evening, Dominants and submissives come together. The subs serve the Dominants food, drinks, and pleasure. I am writing from the submissive side of it all, and I don't know how it exactly feels for the Dominant.

We start the evening with an appetizer. The table is usually already set. Every time we put something on the table, we give a little curtsy. We are as quiet as possible to not disturb the Dominants. When we want to speak, we go into position 4 (permission to speak). I will explain more about the positions we use, with pictures of reference, later on. While the Doms eat, the submissives take turns eating. One will always be standing in the room, in position 6 (attention). We rotate throughout the first round on who will be standing in the room. The waiting in the room is so the Doms can be served whenever needed. Once the first round of food is over, the Doms go out for a smoke and we clean up, getting the main course ready and resetting the table. The table is set like you were in a restaurant, at least the table for the Doms. We subs have a different table, lower to the floor, and eat our food in a kneeling position (on a pillow for comfort).

The main course is ready, the table is set all pretty and nice looking. We serve drinks, either a cocktail or a soft drink, and now it is time to serve the food correctly. For this, we have a ritual, where we all have to be in sync. To achieve this, we work with a dog clicker; whenever we are about to go to the next part of the serving ritual, there will be a click. The ritual goes as follows:

• We come in with the plate in our right hand and our left hand on our back. We walk clockwise to the Dominant we serve and then stand on the right side of them.

• Click: time to go to the next part. With our left hand, we take the napkin from the table, shake it open, and then lay it on the right leg of the Dominant.

• Click again: time to put the food on the table. We place it in front of the Dom.

• Last click: we do a little curtsy and walk clockwise away from the table. One person stays in the room to be ready to serve the Dom at any given moment. We rotate this role while we all eat as well.

It doesn't happen often, but sometimes a Dom would like a second dish. In this case, we serve the food just as before, but without the napkin. The same process applies when serving drinks.

After the main course is over, we clean up the table and the kitchen. At the same time, we prepare the dessert. The same procedure is followed as with the main course, but I won't repeat it all again here.

Moving on to the introduction ritual, this is, to me, the most exciting part, but also a little scary. The subs go into another room, patiently waiting. We wear a collar and leash as well as a blindfold. One by one, we get picked up to go to the room with the Dominants, but never will there be more than one sub in that room during this ritual. When it is my turn, I am put into whatever position my Master desires from me and He introduces me to the rest of the Dominants. He tells them who I am, my kinks, limits, what I am good at, and what I still need to work on. At this moment, since I am blindfolded, I cannot see what is happening around me. But I believe they are examining me, looking at every part of my body, like I am a piece of meat to be devoured at any moment. It makes me feel happy, happy to please, and it makes me feel extremely submissive.

During the whole evening, we wear special dresses that consist of an O skirt and an underbust corset. An O skirt is a skirt that can open easily from the backside and the front side. We also wear it this way, with both sides open. This way, all our assets are always available for the Men.

Once all the girls have had their turn, it is playtime. This is my favorite part, of course. We've engaged in light impact, heavier impact, and bondage. By the time we finish, it is late at night or even early in the morning. We end the night with our gratitude ritual, where we all try to be as in sync as possible. In this ritual, we kiss both shoes of each Dominant and their right hand, ending with our own Dominant. They help us stand up, and then we all give each other a hug. It is the most peaceful part and serves slightly as aftercare for me. After this ritual, the evening is over, and it's time to return to our day-to-day lives.

Personally, these evenings are one of the most special parts of my lifestyle. They are moments when I feel truly submissive, and each time, I am reminded how much I love living this way. Submission isn't just something I do; it's a big part of who I am. It's my way of showing how much I care about someone and where I find my peace. When I'm in a submissive state, I feel free to be myself without worrying about what others think. I can enjoy the experience without feeling judged or weird. These evenings remind me that my submission is not just a kink or a role I play—it's a core part of my identity. It's where I feel happiest and most fulfilled.

Every ritual and act of service strengthens my connection to this lifestyle. These gatherings allow me to explore my submission deeply in a safe and supportive environment. They remind me that being submissive is a beautiful and meaningful expression of who I am, not something to hide or be ashamed of.

Soon, I plan to write a blog post about my journey as a submissive and what it truly means to me. I want to share the deep feelings and satisfaction that come from embracing this part of myself. By sharing my story, I hope to connect with others who might feel the same way and offer support to those still finding their path. My goal is to create a space where we can all feel accepted and understood, knowing that our desires and identities are valid and worth celebrating.

One of the reasons I started this blog was to teach and help others. I remember when I first got into this lifestyle, I did not have people who actually taught me and helped me. I didn't have a mentor or someone in real life. I was too scared and shy to go to a munch by myself, and I was also underage when I first started exploring. So, through this blog, I hope to help those who have experienced something similar or are experiencing something similar.

For now, let's get to the positions I was talking about.

Positions

Position 1; Inspection

• Feet shoulder-width apart

• Hands on the back of your head

• Make yourself tall, but keep your eyes lowered to the floor

This position is exactly as the name suggests: it's time to be inspected. In this position, a Dom can see if you are correctly shaved, how your body looks, and if you are wearing clothes, how they fit. It's the perfect position for a Dominant to get a good look at your body.

Position 2; Nadu

• Lean on your feet as you kneel

• Spread your thighs apart as much as you can, but not too far

• Place your hands open on the inner sides of your thighs

• Sit up tall, as if a string is pulling you up from your back

• Keep your eyes lowered

This position originally comes from the Gorean books but has now been widely used in the BDSM scene to show submission. This position is best used to show that you are ready to serve.

Position 3; Humble

• Go into the Nadu position, but this time, place the tops of your feet flat on the floor

• Lean forward, with your ass up in the air and your breasts slightly touching the floor. Your forehead should touch the floor.

• Your arms should be above your head, with your hands together

The Humble position is a slave position used most often for apologizing. It is called humble because you are not supposed to look anywhere but the floor as a sign of your humility.

Position 4; Permission to speak

• Go into the Attention position

• Instead of having your hands on the back of your head, place them in front of you, just below your shoulders

• Your hands should be crossed, with one hand on top of the other, palms up

The name of this position speaks for itself: you ask for permission to speak and wait in this position until granted permission. I prefer to keep my eyes lowered to the floor as a way of showing my submission, but I am unsure if this is a must.

Position 5; Forgiveness

• Lay on your tummy

• Spread your arms and legs

• Keep your eyes looking at the floor

As with most positions, this one also speaks for itself. After a correction or punishment, you will ask for forgiveness from the Dominant in this position.

Position 6; Attention

• Feet shoulder-width apart

• Hands together on your back, right above your butt

• Eyes lowered to the floor

In this position, you simply wait until given the next order or until you are able to serve. It is also a position where you listen to whatever the Dominant has to say.

A little disclaimer: these position names might be different for someone else. The way they are performed and explained is how I learned them from the Doms I have met in real life. Some names are also translated from German, and they might be called differently elsewhere. As a submissive, it is up to you to find what works for you. I will add in the pictures later this week as I want to make sure I perform them correctly and that they look good.

I hope you enjoyed reading this blog and have a wonderful, beautiful day.

Much love

Ada