The wonderful world of Madi

Welcome to the consistent shit show that is my crazy and unpredictable life! My name is madi and I’m 25 years old! I’ve been in the lifestyle for longer than I care to admit. I’m a bratty masochistic submissive who has more kinks than I can type. I really enjoy meeting new people and having conversations about their experiences. If you ever want to hear about a certain kink or topic just drop it in the comments and I will share my knowledge or advice! A little background on me, I’m currently single and in school full time! I frequently struggle finding the balance between school, friends, and being an active member of the lifestyle. BDSM has greatly impacted my life and it’s not something I can just turn off or walk away from. (Trust me I’ve tried) I get so much joy and fulfillment from my submissive side and it’s hard to find an outlet for my sub side while being a full time student and living in an area where being kinky isn’t accepted. There also is not an active community where I’m located which makes things more challenging.

I want this blog to be raw and real so I promise not to sugar coat things or pretend that my life is perfect. Everyone in this lifestyle faces struggles and I want to share the good with the bad! I’ve been fortunate enough to meet some amazing people in the lifestyle and I don’t know what I would do without them. They are my rock, my shoulder to cry on, and my second family. My first and biggest recommendation to anyone starting their bdsm journey would be to find a kink family or support group. Find people who have experience in the lifestyle that you look up to and ask them everything. Talk to them about your partners and things you want to try with people. Having a mentor or friend can help keep you safe and will help you learn things that you can’t find online or in books.

The second piece of advice I have for you is to take things at your own pace. There is no right or wrong way to practice kink. If something feels right and works for you and your partner then that is all that matters. Don’t let people pressure you into doing things you aren’t ready for yet. It’s perfectly okay to move slowly and to change your mind about your kinks and limits. Mine have evolved and changed drastically over the years and that is normal! Research the hell out of everything and anything that interests you before diving in and trying it. I want to share my knowledge and experiences with you all in hopes that you can learn from them and maybe avoid some of the mistakes I have made in this lifestyle. Don’t be afraid to fuck up because it’s bound to happen eventually. Take care of yourself first and foremost and above all do what makes you happy! Thanks for tuning in and let me know what y’all want to hear about!